Does He Just Want To Be Friends?


When you start spending a lot of time with someone, it can sometimes be hard to tell if that person is interested in you romantically or just as friends. Our co-founder John is quoted in this article on Bustle about ways to tell if someone is romantically into you:

Are They Initiating?

If you’re always initiating the conversations and the get-togethers it’s a sure sign that you’re friend-zoned, says John Boese, Co-Founder of GoFindFriends.com. That includes when he or she responds slowly to emails and texts. They aren’t obsessively checking their email all day to see if you’ve written so they’ll only get back to you when they have some free time. We all know how frustrating that is.

Are They Rescheduling Plans?

If he or she is really into you, they’ll do whatever it takes to spend time with you. If they push things off, you may not be that high on their priority list, says Boese. It may hurt to realize that, but it can also save you a lot of time in the long run.